Children, at least mine, are competitive by nature. Often, someone will say, “Let’s see who can ———- first.” It doesn’t matter what it is; it could be who makes his bed the fastest or who gets his seat belt on first. Everything is a potential competition. If the “opponent” is not prepared, he will object, “I’m not racing!” Usually a squabble ensues, only to be smacked down by my saying, “It’s not a race.”
I have found myself feeling like I am racing when it comes to “getting the deals.” It’s as if my reputation is on the line if I spend more than the rock bottom price on something. Who cares?
I guess I do.
Do you ever feel like this?
Over the last month or two, I’ve had to check myself, “It’s not a race!” I have had to remind myself of some simple truths. The whole point of getting a good deal is to help my family practice good stewardship. It’s not a competition. I’m not a better wife, mother, or blogger if I can score the screaming deal. Instead, it’s a means to an end – getting and staying “in the black.”
For one family, good stewardship might involve heavy coupon use and shopping at lots of different stores. For another family, it’s planting a garden. For a third, it may be cooking all meals from scratch. For you, it may be all of those, none of those, or a combination. The point is that each of us needs to figure out how to live in a way that best serves her family.
What about you? Where are you on the frugal living continuum? Do you pinch every penny? Do you have certain areas where you “splurge?”
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