A New View

Visits to amusement parks were a regular occasion for my family when I was growing up. Since we lived about a 45 minute drive from “the happiest place on Earth,” and only five miles from Magic Mountain, a day at the park was a frequent activity. Those days are a wonderful part of my childhood memories.

I have glimpses in my mind of racing to the Matterhorn – my all-time favorite ride – to beat the rush, of buckling in, of the exhilarating twists and turns, of cold blasts of air in my face, and of the breathless exit with my dad trailing behind and of running to my mom, sitting on a bench right outside the gate. My siblings and I would recount the tale of our wild ride and perhaps tickle the Baby while we told our story. Mom would smile and laugh and tell us about the some of the things she saw while she waited for us.

You see, in a large family, there was always a baby on our trips to Disneyland. And part and parcel with “doing-an-amusement-park-with-a-baby-or-toddler” is that one parent is required to sit it out. That lot usually fell to my mom.

Monday I found myself at Legoland, experiencing an amusement park from a totally new perspective. For some of you this may be old hat. But, though our oldest is almost twelve, this was our first jaunt into roller coasters and theme parks. The kids had a fantastic time.

For me it was a rite of passage.

No longer was I the young girl cut loose to stuff herself with soft pretzels, waffle cone sundaes, and frozen lemonade. I was a mom of six on a budget.

No longer was I able to go where the wind or whim might blow me. I was counting heads every five seconds to make sure we hadn’t lost anyone.

No longer was I feeling that exhilarating blast of cold air in my face as the roller coaster twisted and turned. I was on the bench with the babies.

I think this surprised me. And, truth be told, I wondered what kind of fun I was missing. (Just for the record, FishPapa and I took turns going on rides with the boys.)

But, the Lord blessed me with a fine husband and as we talked about how different this experience was from the last time we hit a theme park, I realized that I wouldn’t want it any other way.

A trip to the amusement park was one way we could bless our kids. The smile on my four year old’s face as he jousted a knight from atop a mighty steed or the excitement in my eleven year old’s eyes when he came rushing off a roller coaster or the joy exploding from my eight year old when he got to drive his own car – well, those things are priceless.

And the baby? Well, could she be any cuter?

The view from the bench is a lot like motherhood. It’s taking a step back and letting our children experience and enjoy life. As they grow, we have the privelege of helping them learn about the world around them. Sometimes without us.

We may not be the star players this season. But, that’s okay. We can encourage them from the sidelines, smile, wave, take their pictures.

And we can greet them when they come to rest at halftime. Their success is our success. And every smile on their faces is a victory for me.

I wouldn’t have it any other way.

(By the way, thanks, Mom.)

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  1. That Fishbaby is adorable!!

  2. Nancy M. says:

    My son would be so jealous of y’all going to legoland. He eats, lives, and breathes legos. He even made a blog about them.

    You’re right, though, it’s a whole different experience as a mom. But, totally worth it!

    Oh, my goodness, your little girl is so precious! That hat is too cute! And the socks below, well, it did take me awhile to figure out they were like flip flops. That’s so neat!

  3. The 3D Momma says:

    I’m always counting head (or noses as we say in our family)! I only have 3 boys, although, because my older boys are 11 months apart – I often count them as one. Then I feel like I’m missing a child!

  4. Thanks for this post. I needed it today.

  5. Kristy B says:

    Hi,

    I got your email and am trying to see if I can post now!

    Hopefully this will work, thanks for trying it!

    Kristy

  6. Anonymous says:

    Hey…we are heading there in a couple of weeks…I would love to hear how you made this trip affordable. Thanks for your cute blog!!! jtmkcm at yahoo dot com.

  7. Jenn @ Beautiful Calling says:

    Oh, I was just explaining your names and the FBA etc. to my husband the other day. I had mentioned you (fishmama) in passing and Scott was like “what??”.

    Maybe I’ll show him this pic of Fish Baby. She’s a doll!

  8. Sounds like a great time! And, no the baby couldn’t be any cuter!

  9. HeatherC says:

    Ok, you seriously go to the exact same places we do…… and that goes for your experiences as a kid too. (I grew up in orange county and frequented disneyland as well)
    Next on my list Long Beach aquarium (ralphs has good prices)or the santa ana discovery museum. Any experience with those 2?

  10. FishMama says:

    Legoland review coming next week.

    Heather, I know virtually nothing of the OC – except Disneyland. Once we see all there is to see in SD, we’ll venture that way. Let me know about those places after you go. ;)

  11. Alicia says:

    This past year we took my 5 year to Disneyworld and just watching him with Mickey and seeing how he reacted to things left me in amazement!

  12. So very true about this time of life is like sitting on the bench! I am learning so much- its amazing!

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