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Loving Those Who Grieve During the Holidays
Posted By Jessica Fisher On December 15, 2010 @ 1:00 am In Christmas,Holidays | 18 Comments
Two years ago this week my mother-in-law lost her battle with cancer. She loved celebrating Christmas with her grandsons. She never really knew our girls. While she and I didn’t always see eye to eye, those things don’t really matter to me anymore. I wish I had learned that sooner.
This post was originally posted on December 23, 2008 . May it be an encouragement to those who are struggling this season as well as a motivation to those who can help.
This past week my eyes are opened to the realization that for some people Christmas will not be so merry. For our family, we are grieving the loss of someone we loved very much.
We spent several Christmases with my mother-in-law, and now, everywhere I turn something reminds me of her.
And all of a sudden, I see that we are not the only ones. There are families, maybe you, maybe your neighbor, who are struggling with job losses, overwhelming debts, illness, separation, imprisonment, or death.
It’s been so easy for me in my little cave to go about my business, to plan all sorts of entertainments for my children, and not to think about what other people are experiencing. And now my eyes are opening a little more.
– the family who lost their daughter just days before her fifth birthday.
– the woman whose husband is deployed and living a life of danger so that we may be free.
– the couple pursuing adoption whose birth mother changes her mind after they’ve already welcomed a new son into their home and into their hearts.
– the dad who is struggling to make ends meet yet fears the layoffs.
These are real scenarios. Real people.
I mention this as a gentle reminder for myself and for you to think about what we can do to bring comfort to others who might not be having so merry a Christmas. Consider one of these small acts of kindness to perform this week and then again next month when the excitement has died down but the troubles perhaps have not.
These ideas are just a start.
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