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Your To-Do List: Is it a Blessing or a Burden?

Consider your to-do list. Is it a blessing or a burden? Your answer will determine how easy or hard your tasks will be to complete.

Your To-Do List: Is it a Blessing or a Burden? Life as Mom

Omigosh. I have so much to do. I don’t know how I’m ever going to do it all. How in the world did I get myself into this mess?

Sound familiar? Been there, said that, right? It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and regretful when we have a mountain of work in front of us. And it’s not unheard of to think of the tasks on our to-do lists as burdens.

Dishes? Laundry? Errands?

Boring. Boring. Boring!

The weight of all that Mom needs to do in a day can feel boring at best, burdensome at worst.

Or does it?

Recently, I was feeling agitated and anxious by ALL I HAD TO DO. I mean, of all the women in the world, I was sure that I and I alone had an insurmountable list of tasks to complete. I went to bed feeling discouraged and defeated. There in the dark, I wondered how I was going to get it all done.

Lying awake in the dark is a good place for reflection. My thoughts wandered in the blackness, and God reminded me of what life was like for me 18 years prior. That was the miscarriage year. We lost three babies in eleven months. That was so hard.

What if that was where my fertility story had ended?

My to-do list would look a lot different. I’d have one child, not six, and he’d presumably be away at college instead of living at home since there’d likely be money to pay for it. My nest would be empty.

My to-do list would look a lot different.

Your To-Do List: Is it a Blessing or a Burden? Life as Mom

Your To-Do List: Blessing or Burden?

That brief glimpse into a what-could-have-been gave me the perspective I needed. My to-do list is a representation of all the blessings in my life. It’s not a burden.

Dishes? I have six healthy kids who (more or less) enjoy eating my food. I have money to buy the food to feed them.

Laundry? Not only do I have indoor plumbing and a 2nd-floor laundry room, but I also have an amazing washer and dryer that sings me a song when each cycle is complete.

Errands? I have a reliable car, even if the power locks are broken,  gas money to run it, and safe roads to drive on.

If I look at my to-do list as a representation of the blessings in my life, it’s a lot easier to handle. What could be looked at as burdens are now honors and privileges.

Now sure, not everything on our to-do lists are bonafide blessings or even represent one in a Pollyanna kind of way. Some things are hard. But, we win or we learn, right? Even those hard things on our lists can lead to teachable moments that enhance our lives in the long run.

What’s on your to-do list? Is it dragging you down? Or can you look at it in a different way, from a different perspective, and realize that it can represent all the blessings in your life. Counting our blessings makes such a difference in our attitudes.

What’s on YOUR to-do list today?

Your To-Do List: Is it a Blessing or a Burden? Life as Mom

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  1. Roberta says:

    It really is all about perspective, isn’t it? Laundry is my favorite “chore,” because after somewhere around 15 years of infertility, it was such a blessing to–finally!–be able to wash baby clothes. Well, my “baby” just turned 13 and his clothes are bigger, but doing his laundry still reminds me of how blessed we are.

  2. Theresa says:

    Love this!

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