Creating an Afterschool Happy Hour
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On a good day at our house, school wraps up by about 3 o’clock. The house is quiet. The girls are napping (hopefully). The boys are finishing their independent work. We do a quick pick up to signal the end of lessons and the transition to afternoon activities.
One fun thing to make that transition fun — and delicious — is to share an afterschool “happy hour.” You could call it a coffee break, an afterschool snack or tea time.
The important thing is that we take a moment to unwind, share a snack, and reconnect.
We do this at the end of our homeschool day, but I imagine that families who school outside the home would enjoy this just as much. It’s a great chance to catch up, share funny stories, and refuel for afternoon activities.
Take a moment to unwind
I find that school days can be full days. My kids have chores and school lessons to do. I have to hit the ground running just to keep up. While each child may not be busy the entire day, my minutes are filled, transitioning my attention from child to child and tackling home tasks.
Taking a break can be so refreshing — for me and the kids.
Share a snack
On a good day at our house, meals are planned in advance. The kids have had a good breakfast; we eat sack lunches. Dinner is scheduled for about six pm. Lunch seems hours ago, and it’s still too early to eat dinner.
So, it’s nice to have a snack to hold us over.
Some snacks we like:
- Apples and maple cream
- Cheese and crackers
- Graham crackers and applesauce
- Popcorn with butter
- Cake and hot cocoa
- Cookies and milk
Sharing Sara Lee
Recently, our happy hour featured pound cake from Sara Lee. This dessert is a sweet memory from my childhood. My mom often bought one for me and my four siblings.
I love the convenience of having this snack in the freezer. It’s a great last minute treat, especially since it thaws so quickly. I prefer it cold.
Drizzle it with an orange glaze, and it’s even better!
Orange Glaze
1 cup powdered sugar
1 teaspoon orange zest
1 – 2 Tablespoons orange juiceCombine all ingredients in a small bowl, adding enough juice to create the consistency you desire. Drizzle over slices of pound cake and serve.
Reconnect
Even though I spend all day every day with my kids, there are still times when I feel a disconnect. If I’ve been busy cleaning or we’ve had company, I feel like I’ve been away from them. I miss them when we haven’t had a chance to talk.
Snack time is a good way for us to reconnect.
Looking at good days
The reality is that “good days” are hard to come by. At least in the “everything-is-going-as-I-planned” kind of good day.
The house might be a wreck. Tears might have been shed over math problems or phonics reading. Piles of laundry may be waiting in all corners of the house. FishChick 2 might have gotten into who-knows what.
But, hanging with my kids? Reconnecting after a hard day? Enjoying a little pick-me-up together?
That can make every day a good day.
I reconnect with my daughter when she gets home from school each day by going through her backpack and listening to her tell me about her day before we pick my son up from school. Then, we all reconnect once he’s home by reading some books on the couch.
I try to be sure to ask each one of them how their day was at school, and then a more probing question to get more details about it.
Taking the time to play or just snuggle with them.
I spend time cooking in the kitchen where ds16 is usually doing schoolwork. Gives us more opprotunities to talk about his day.
I like to sit down with the kids and play cards. The conversations that come in that time is awesome.
Although we try to connect up on a daily basis through quiet times, mealtime conversations, and routines, when we need a little extra, I plan what my 5-year-old calls a “Mommy Adventure” — a day with an unexpected twist that involves time together. We’ll go to the zoo, or the park, or a museum, or pack a picnic — some event that’s dedicated to the two of us exploring together and bonding along the way. I’m always thinking about what the next one will be, and my son, who is 5, will occasionally tell me that he thinks it’s time for another Mommy Adventure!
When we all get home it is just nice to stand around and talk while I am making dinner or feeding the baby.
Making strawberry shortcake together or ice cream sundaes. Seeing who can make the weirdest or wildest ones. Then we sit down together and enjoy them!
A family trip to the park
My kids and I loooove weekends! We watch movies, make popcorn, slushies, cookies, brownies….whatever! We just toss everything else aside. They are great kids and I love spending time with them doing whatever!!! Thanks for the chance to win! What a treat!