Housekeeping at the Holidays
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Housekeeping at the holidays can be tough. There’s packing and unpacking, traveling and guests. How do you keep the house tidy during the holiday season?
Can I just say that keeping your home “company-ready” is a full-time job? I’m not saying you should do so or that it’s even possible. But, keeping a neat and tidy home does not happen without some physical and mental energy being expended.
I’ve been working on building better habits when it comes to housekeeping. I’ve realized that our whole family is happier when our house doesn’t look like it’s been ransacked.
After the big clean out last October, I fired up the Motivated Moms app and enlisted the kids’ aid in doing “what MoMo says” each day. I started doing walk-throughs every morning and afternoon, straightening messes and hunting down mess-makers.
It reminded me a little bit of what life was like when none of my kids was yet school age. The walk-through used to be a regular part of my day until I just got too overwhelmed and “busy”.
I now realize what Donna Reed did all day — and how she kept her house TV camera-ready. Constant vigilance.
I suppose it comes as no surprise that housekeeping is not my strong suit. I’ve had to work at it for 21+ years now. And I still come up short. There are just too many things on the to-do list — and too many people to make messes right behind me — and, if I’m honest, too many things I’d rather do that clean my house every day.
Housekeeping at the Holidays
Housekeeping can be all the more overwhelming when the holiday season hits. There’s packing and unpacking, traveling and guests, things to do, baking messes to make, wrappings to manage. How do you keep the house tidy during the holiday season?
Here are a few strategies to help keep the messes at bay this month:
1. Keep up with the laundry.
Laundry is the nemesis of good housekeeping. That and trash. I learned years ago that family life produced a lot of both dirty clothes and stuff to pick up and throw in the garbage. If you can stay on top of these things, that’s half the battle. I never committed to having laundry hampers and trash cans in every single room, but I’ve come close.
Stay on top of the laundry this season. If you don’t have a laundry system that you love, now’s a good time to get one going.
2. Have a meal plan.
Things seem to take longer during the holidays: the cookie baking session, the light at the intersection, the line at the mega mart. This, of course, means that dinnertime will come upon you sooner than you are ready for it. It always happens. Trust me.
Have a meal plan and groceries ready before folks are ready to eat dinner. And warn spouse and older children that they made need to pitch in more if they don’t already.
Grab this free meal plan to make it easy this month. Or grab this one.
3. Unpack right away.
After making several road trips with children and coming home from one after which we left all the bags in the car for three days because of the pouring rain that never let up, I’ve learned that unpacking right away does you a lot of good. It gets your car clean and ready for the next adventure, it gets your clothes cleaner than they would be if they sat in the car for three days, and it lets you unwind at home without that nagging feeling that you’re supposed to be doing something.
Unpack right away so that the travel doesn’t feel like work that drags on for days.
Bonus points: Have a plan for travel laundry. Since my kids do their own laundry, I have them keep their dirty clothes in a small laundry bag in their own luggage. Then they can dump the dirty stuff into their hamper once we’re home and proceed as usual. If you do your laundry as a family, make sure to pack a laundry bag big enough so you can corral dirty clothing as it happens and do one big wash as soon as you come home.
4. Tidy often.
As I mentioned earlier, keeping a tidy home is pretty much a full time job. I let things get lax for a few days, and the veritable wheels fell off the bus. I’m not talking about a cushion out of place. I’m talking about every room looking like it’s been visited by Gremlins.
A couple hours and a few orders barked (politely) at the crew can get us back in shape, but I’m a firm believer in the daily walk-through. Constant vigilance, I tell you.
The Motivated Moms app can help keep you motivated and organized, but you can set reminders on your phone or simply put “walk-through” on your to do list. Just be sure that you delegate some things instead of doing all the work yourself.
Keep up on daily tidy and straightening so things don’t get out of hand.
5. Make room for new stuff.
As Christmas approaches, it’s in your best interests to make room for new toys and clothes that your family may be gifted. Consider doing a little dejunking or cleaning out the kids’ rooms so that they have space to store their new possessions.
It was a big a-ha moment for me this year to realize that I can’t expect my kids to have it all together if it’s taken me 40+ years to be able to make sense of my own clutter. Help them learn to take care of their spaces and to part with unwanted items to make room for the new stuff that will inevitably
breed like rabbits make their way to your home.
Out with the old and in with the new is a great motto!
Housekeeping at the holidays doesn’t have to be another burdensome thing on your to-do list. There are ways that you can stay on top of things and still enjoy the holiday season. In fact, I think you’ll enjoy it more if your house is clean and tidy.
When I get too tired, keeping up things at home seems to be the first to go. I know that I need to leave space for relaxing and resting, or it will get messy around here. I do better when I do little bits at a time. I try to keep in the habit of pick-ups certain times a day and keeping other tasks on a regular schedule. For the little bits of clutter, it is a constant battle. I feel better when things are uncluttered. One thing I do is think about how things will look in a picture, and that helps.
Oh, I can take a picture without including the mess. 😉
We’ve stared having “everything gets put away” nights twice a week, on Sunday and Wednesday. I can put up with the clutter and mess accumulated among the three of use for 3-4 days. It doesn’t mean we don’t clean or tidy up every night, but on those two days the random stuff that doesn’t seem to get put away gets put away. On Sunday it’s a lot of laundry and miscellaneous stuff that gets dragged downstairs. It’s been working well!
Yay! So glad to hear about success stories.
This time of year, it’s mostly me who’s making messes.
😀 I’m an inveterate Christmas baker, and no doubt constant vigilance is definitely the key! Without a plan to organize all of it, I’d be swimming in a sea of sheet pans and grosses of cookies in various stages of completion. This year, we’re hosting our cookie party the week after Thanksgiving which, though necessary ended up being a stroke of genius as I have a freezer full of leftovers that leaves room for me to bake without having to worry about still cooking a full meal every day. Thanks for all of your writing on freezer cooking! I’m slowly figuring out what works for me.
I get you! My office looks like the North Pole exploded.
Thank you for the inspiring tips. Good reminders! I really need to remember #5. The kids’ rooms are decluttered but my youngest (7 yr old daughter) LOVES stuffed animals and can’t seem to part with any. She will be getting at least one new one for Christmas. Any suggestions? I am a minimalist myself and I declutter with the kids but I don’t want to force her to get rid of things she loves. The problem is-she loves too many things. 🙂 On another topic, have you written any posts on your family’s evening routine that you use to ensure the house isn’t a mess in the morning? Thanks!
I would suggest asking her which are her favorites and which she thinks might make some other child really happy this year. Since my 7yo daughter and stuffed animal lover has allergies, I have a good excuse to remove some. (We put them in the freezer to kill the dust mites periodically and don’t let her have more than a couple at a time.) If she never asks for them back, they find a new home. I’m not afraid to tell the kids, “We don’t have space for everything; you need to choose.” That’s really a part of life, so getting practice now is good.
As for nighttime routine, I’m sure I’ve written about it, but back in the days when posts weren’t titled according to their topics. LOL. My personal routine is here: http://lifeasmom.com/2015/10/organize-your-days-for-success.html
These are all good tips. I’m having my morning coffee and looking around the house at the destruction left after the long weekend. Its going to take me most of the day to get it back into shape. Will crank up the Christmas tunes and add a little holiday smelling oil to my cleaning solution. Fir? Clove and orange? Not sure yet. It will be festive and good smelling though!
I’ve been using peppermint and pine in my diffuser. 🙂