Can You Really Save Money on Black Friday?
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At one time it was the biggest shopping day of the year. But can you really save on Black Friday?

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Ah! the good old days when the Christmas season — and the heavy commercialization push to spend money — didn’t start until the day after Thanksgiving.
Those days are gone. Likely, you’ve seen some type of Christmas marketing since the summertime. It’s become a year-long affair, with the year-long debts to pay for if you’re not careful.
Historically, Black Friday is the biggest shopping day of the year, a day when retailers count on their sales being “in the black” or making a profit, versus “in the red” which signifies a profit loss.
Businesses would slash prices and offer Black Friday deals in order to edge out the competition. As a whole, I think the American people have been conditioned to expect good Black Friday sales and Cyber Monday deals so much that we count on spending money that first weekend after Thanksgiving.
These days with higher costs and shrinking product size and quality, you can’t count on much else. You can’t even count on when the sales will start as they start them earlier and earlier, increasing your feelings of FOMO and extending your shopping season.
To save money on Christmas, you have to be the smarter player in this game. After all, why do Thanksgiving on a budget and then blow the savings on bad Black Friday deals?

Planning to Save on Black Friday
I think there are good Black Friday deals to be had, but only if you are a savvy shopper. If you want to see some real money savings, then you’re going to need to go in with a plan.
Make your Christmas lists as soon as you can in the fall, your Christmas to-do list, your Christmas bucket list, and your list of gifts to give. This information will help you make the best shopping decisions and maximize your savings.
When you know what you plan to do and gift this season, you can dig a little deeper and have a strategy going into Black Friday sales.
Consider these best practices:
- Take a look at your budget. If you don’t already have a Christmas budget, now is the time to make one. Once you’ve accounted for groceries and other necessities, how much do you have left to spend? If that number is low, then you’re going to need to be very strategic in your spending so that you can save on Black Friday and into December.
- Inventory your home, take note of what you already have as well as what you might need where it concerns Christmas decor, housewares, and electronics. Are there legitimate needs that a Black Friday purchase might fill? Likewise, do you already have too much? Don’t buy on a whim. Know what you actually need.
- Audit your spending at your favorite retailers. Many stores and businesses offer gift card discounts this month. If you know how much you spend in a year and can afford to spend that cash from savings, you can buy yourself gift cards to use in the coming months. In this way, you’ll get a discount on your future purchases. Just be sure that you pace yourself in spending the gift cards, otherwise you’ll negate the savings. Spend gift cards like cash.
- Consider your subscriptions. Many apps and subscription services offer discounts. Perhaps this is a time to join a service that you’ve been thinking about but can do so at a discount.
- Prepare your gift list. Do you know who you will be giving Christmas gifts to this year? Create a list along with some ideas of what they might actually like. Again, don’t shop on a whim. Shop with a plan.
- Clean your closet. Are there gaps in your mix-and-match wardrobe? Make a list of the items it would be nice to have.
- Start a list of household needs for next year. It may be hard to think about these things now that you’re on the spot. Start keeping track of needs that arise so that you can be on the lookout for the right Black Friday sales.
Pro tip: don’t finance these purchases or you’ll negate anything you save on Black Friday. You can live without credit cards.

Tips to Save on Black Friday
Once you’ve done some thinking and planning, you’re ready to shop. But before you head to checkout, ask yourself the following questions so that you can truly save on Black Friday.
1. Do I need this?
Remember, “enough is as good as a feast.” Repeat that to yourself three times a day.
We live in a culture of excess and are often tempted to buy something we like instead of limiting ourselves to the things we truly need, love, and use.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s your money to spend. And if you really have the money, I think you have the freedom to spend it how you would like.
However, usually we spend money on things that we don’t really need OR want. So, examine yourself and your desires first. Do you need it?
2. Do I need it NOW?
I am all for anticipation buying. I stockpile regularly on items that I know our family will use in the very near future.
But, I’ve been burned too many times buying things that we might need a year from now and actually never used.
Think through your purchase. Do you need it right now? Unless it’s an absolute killer Black Friday deal (they rarely are), if you don’t need it right now, you can probably wait on the purchase. To save on Black Friday might be not to buy it at all!

3. Is this a quality product?
I have a friend who works for a major retailer as a store manager. She speaks rather disparagingly about many of the items in their Black Friday ads.
She thinks the products are junk. Even if it’s only ten bucks, why buy junk?
If you wouldn’t buy it unless it was on sale, it’s probably not good enough for you.
4. Is this really a good deal?
Do some price comparison to see if the advertised special really makes cents. Will this sale help you save on Black Friday?
My experience has been that the deals on Black Friday are not a flash in the pan. We usually see comparable sales again throughout the holiday season.
Don’t feel pressured to buy because the price might go up. Additionally, be sure that you can return it if you find a better price elsewhere.
5. Is Black Friday shopping worth the stress?
If lugging the kids out in the snow to buy the $3 turtlenecks only to find out that they’ve all been snatched up is a stressful experience, don’t do it.
(And yes, it is a stressful experience. Ask me how I know.)
Avoid a stressful Christmas season wherever you can.
There is a cost to everything. And the stress involved in shopping on busy, crowded days can take a toll on us and our families. And it’s not a great way to enter the Christmas season.
Asking yourself these five questions can help you save on Black Friday. You may, after all, decide it’s better to stay home with a bowl of Pilgrim Minestrone and watch a Christmas movie.

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This post was originally published on November 25, 2010. It has been updated for content and clarity.





Great questions – it is SO easy to get caught up in the rush!
In Canada our equivalent to Black Friday is Boxing Day(December 26th). I went one year and vowed NEVER EVER again. There is no deal so great that it is worth almost being crushed to death. There is a feel of rampant materialism to that day that does not sit well in my spirit.
Great tips on Black Friday! I wrote some ideas on how you can restock your kitchen with Black Friday Deals: http://www.foodonthetable.com/blog/2010/11/frugal-friday/
Canada doesn’t seem to do Black Friday, but even if they did I would probably not go. Too stressful.
My link is for yummy turkey or chicken soup with homemade stock. http://homeschoolblogger.com/reviewsandmore/2010/11/turkey-or-chicken-soup/
Annie Kate
I think your last point has become the most important for us. There just isn’t anything that’s worth it to me. We used to plan our Black Friday shopping attack to the point that we are now qualified to plan a mission for Navy Seals. Now, we enjoy staying away from anything that even remotely resembles retail.
If we want Black Friday deals, I have found it best to go online. It also helps to sweetly sing, “Oh Holy Night” while looking at all of the ads, it puts things into perspective quite well. : )
Things seem so out of whack in the ads! It grieves my spirit to see $10.00 items considered stocking stuffers! Oh my goodness! : O
The old ways are truly best, years ago, children were excited to get fruit in their stockings. They would be aghast at Black Friday now.
One thing that also helps our family is reading Reminisce magazine from Reiman Publications and reading the sweet accounts of people raised in the 30s through even the 70s. You can get some idea of what they have here and some good stories too! : ) http://www.reminisce.com/Default.asp?r_d=y
I think we can keep things simple and sweet and still keep the wonder of Christmas too.
You have some great reminders here on your site, wonderful. : ) Blessings to you!
Oh @Amelia,
You are always such an encouragement, such a breath of fresh air. THANK you for taking the time to comment. I appreciate it more than words can say. Love the idea about singing Oh Holy Night while looking at ads! LOL Excellent!
@Jessica Fisher, Thank you so much, I am so glad you enjoyed the suggestion! Bless you Jessica for your sweet reply, your blog is a perk to my day!
Good post. I too have noticed the big sales items are often low quality. I avoid Black Friday every chance I get. I like your 5 rules 🙂
This was my first year to go out. I got my husband a tool at Sears that I had picked out from the ad, and went to Penny’s to buy leather tall boots that were $100 off and my sister PJ’s.
They didn’t have my size so I bought the wrong size and am hoping to exchange them for the correct size when they restock. I can always return them for a full refund if they never get my size in.
We were out of the mall in an hour and my mother in law took me to breakfast afterwards. Great morning and I’m all done with shopping now!
Here’s why I won’t be shopping on Black Friday.
Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!
My frugal friday tip is being creative with leftovers, starting with breakfast! I thought there was a linky link up but I must have had too much turkey to eat…
http://frugalinflorida.blogspot.com/2010/11/using-up-those-leftovers.html
Black Friday? No thanks … did it last year with Hubby and Sonnyboy…Target at 4am, in store 5am, got the 2 tvs for $298 each (40 inch flatscreens), checked out by 5:15am, eating in IHOP at 5:45, TV’s hooked up by 7am, sleeping agan by 8am. Uhhhh. I’ll pass this year!