Can You Really Save Money on Black Friday?
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At one time it was the biggest shopping day of the year. But can you really save on Black Friday?

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Ah! the good old days when the Christmas season — and the heavy commercialization push to spend money — didn’t start until the day after Thanksgiving.
Those days are gone. Likely, you’ve seen some type of Christmas marketing since the summertime. It’s become a year-long affair, with the year-long debts to pay for if you’re not careful.
Historically, Black Friday is the biggest shopping day of the year, a day when retailers count on their sales being “in the black” or making a profit, versus “in the red” which signifies a profit loss.
Businesses would slash prices and offer Black Friday deals in order to edge out the competition. As a whole, I think the American people have been conditioned to expect good Black Friday sales and Cyber Monday deals so much that we count on spending money that first weekend after Thanksgiving.
These days with higher costs and shrinking product size and quality, you can’t count on much else. You can’t even count on when the sales will start as they start them earlier and earlier, increasing your feelings of FOMO and extending your shopping season.
To save money on Christmas, you have to be the smarter player in this game. After all, why do Thanksgiving on a budget and then blow the savings on bad Black Friday deals?

Planning to Save on Black Friday
I think there are good Black Friday deals to be had, but only if you are a savvy shopper. If you want to see some real money savings, then you’re going to need to go in with a plan.
Make your Christmas lists as soon as you can in the fall, your Christmas to-do list, your Christmas bucket list, and your list of gifts to give. This information will help you make the best shopping decisions and maximize your savings.
When you know what you plan to do and gift this season, you can dig a little deeper and have a strategy going into Black Friday sales.
Consider these best practices:
- Take a look at your budget. If you don’t already have a Christmas budget, now is the time to make one. Once you’ve accounted for groceries and other necessities, how much do you have left to spend? If that number is low, then you’re going to need to be very strategic in your spending so that you can save on Black Friday and into December.
- Inventory your home, take note of what you already have as well as what you might need where it concerns Christmas decor, housewares, and electronics. Are there legitimate needs that a Black Friday purchase might fill? Likewise, do you already have too much? Don’t buy on a whim. Know what you actually need.
- Audit your spending at your favorite retailers. Many stores and businesses offer gift card discounts this month. If you know how much you spend in a year and can afford to spend that cash from savings, you can buy yourself gift cards to use in the coming months. In this way, you’ll get a discount on your future purchases. Just be sure that you pace yourself in spending the gift cards, otherwise you’ll negate the savings. Spend gift cards like cash.
- Consider your subscriptions. Many apps and subscription services offer discounts. Perhaps this is a time to join a service that you’ve been thinking about but can do so at a discount.
- Prepare your gift list. Do you know who you will be giving Christmas gifts to this year? Create a list along with some ideas of what they might actually like. Again, don’t shop on a whim. Shop with a plan.
- Clean your closet. Are there gaps in your mix-and-match wardrobe? Make a list of the items it would be nice to have.
- Start a list of household needs for next year. It may be hard to think about these things now that you’re on the spot. Start keeping track of needs that arise so that you can be on the lookout for the right Black Friday sales.
Pro tip: don’t finance these purchases or you’ll negate anything you save on Black Friday. You can live without credit cards.

Tips to Save on Black Friday
Once you’ve done some thinking and planning, you’re ready to shop. But before you head to checkout, ask yourself the following questions so that you can truly save on Black Friday.
1. Do I need this?
Remember, “enough is as good as a feast.” Repeat that to yourself three times a day.
We live in a culture of excess and are often tempted to buy something we like instead of limiting ourselves to the things we truly need, love, and use.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s your money to spend. And if you really have the money, I think you have the freedom to spend it how you would like.
However, usually we spend money on things that we don’t really need OR want. So, examine yourself and your desires first. Do you need it?
2. Do I need it NOW?
I am all for anticipation buying. I stockpile regularly on items that I know our family will use in the very near future.
But, I’ve been burned too many times buying things that we might need a year from now and actually never used.
Think through your purchase. Do you need it right now? Unless it’s an absolute killer Black Friday deal (they rarely are), if you don’t need it right now, you can probably wait on the purchase. To save on Black Friday might be not to buy it at all!

3. Is this a quality product?
I have a friend who works for a major retailer as a store manager. She speaks rather disparagingly about many of the items in their Black Friday ads.
She thinks the products are junk. Even if it’s only ten bucks, why buy junk?
If you wouldn’t buy it unless it was on sale, it’s probably not good enough for you.
4. Is this really a good deal?
Do some price comparison to see if the advertised special really makes cents. Will this sale help you save on Black Friday?
My experience has been that the deals on Black Friday are not a flash in the pan. We usually see comparable sales again throughout the holiday season.
Don’t feel pressured to buy because the price might go up. Additionally, be sure that you can return it if you find a better price elsewhere.
5. Is Black Friday shopping worth the stress?
If lugging the kids out in the snow to buy the $3 turtlenecks only to find out that they’ve all been snatched up is a stressful experience, don’t do it.
(And yes, it is a stressful experience. Ask me how I know.)
Avoid a stressful Christmas season wherever you can.
There is a cost to everything. And the stress involved in shopping on busy, crowded days can take a toll on us and our families. And it’s not a great way to enter the Christmas season.
Asking yourself these five questions can help you save on Black Friday. You may, after all, decide it’s better to stay home with a bowl of Pilgrim Minestrone and watch a Christmas movie.

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What do you think?
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This post was originally published on November 25, 2010. It has been updated for content and clarity.





I so agree with these pre-buying questions! We’re skipping the whole Black Friday thing this year…too much stress and not enough money saving sales on the things we actually want to make it worth it.
My Frugal Friday post is about finding affordable, real Christmas trees!
http://femmefrugality.blogspot.com/2012/11/suburbanites-buy-your-tree-in-city.html?showComment=1353703200975#c3226046395292188845
Great post, Jessica… I don’t do Black Friday at all… intentionally. In this day and age when so many small businesses are struggling to make it, I make a concerted effort to shop local and buy from local businesses whenever I can. I even asked my kids to include 1-2 things on their “lists” this year that I knew I could only get from a local merchant. Tomorrow (Sat) is shop local Saturday around here…and I’ll be doing just that! If you really want to support your local economy, look right outside your door and buy your gifts there!
Great questions! 🙂
I’ve never gone out on Black Friday, but my biggest money-saver after Thanksgiving is using up my T-Day leftovers. Here are 40 Recipes to Use Up Thanksgiving Leftovers.
I’ve been doing BF shopping since I was about 8, way before it become popular! I remember being the first one in line with my grandma and aunts every year. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed my “wants” have changed from electronics to every day household items, such as the paper towels I picked up yesterday or the deals from Rite Aid. I hadn’t read your rules before I headed out at 4:30 this morning, but I actually tried to keep a lot of them in mind as I was going through the stores. I made a list in my phone last night and tried to stick with it. I even managed to make it out of Target without anything that was a “deal”. The one lesson I learned was to compare the non Black Friday price. I drove 10 minutes further than I had planned on, only to save $10 on an item at Sears. Was it really worth the savings? Nope, not when I would have probably been in the area before Christmas. I actually purchased a ton of storage containers that were on sale for my plan to downsize during my vacation next month.
I also noticed that with all the stores opening last night or at midnight, I didn’t have to wait in any lines, check out at most stores I went to was under 5 minutes and they all had tons of product still in stock. Next year I think I will stay home, shop through ebates, order online and pick up at the store and save lots of time and gas.
here’s a way I save money
http://www.ithinkicansquared.blogspot.com/2012/11/finding-coupons-for-free.html
In Canada, we don’t have Black Friday, and from all I hear about it, I’m very glad. It sounds terrible, kind of like our Boxing Day sales.
But it’s always good to save money, and I posted about a new blog of wholesome free and discounted ebooks. It’s much better than going to some of the freebie sites out there that are full of trashy books as well as good ones; this one filters out the trash. I’m going to be letting my 14 y-o daughter onto this site.
http://anniekateshomeschoolreviews.com/2012/11/wholesome-free-and-discounted-ebooks/
I swear you heard me going on to my dh yesterday in the car about the Christmas creep and the excess consumption it encourages. Blah!
Yet, here I am with a post on saving money when you are spending money: http://www.frugallocalkitchen.com/blog/buying-christmas-gifts-save-cash-for-groceries/
My husband and I headed out once for Black Friday deals and sadly what we bought broke way quicker than expected. I agree too that the deals are really not that much better than what you can get all through out the season. http://snailpacetransformations.com/2012/11/17/selling-saturdays-amazon-trade-in-program-for-books/
I’m sharing a link today on what you should stock up on now to help fill your pantry! http://behealthybehappywellness.com/2012/11/stock-up-now-and-save/