Making and Keeping Fall Traditions

Traditions are the things that we cling to when life bounces us around. Traditions are stability for our kids when their minds and their bodies are growing too fast for them — and us. Traditions are what we use to create beautiful memories with our families.

Can we be deliberate in tradition building? I think so. After all, what is a tradition after all? It’s a practice that is repeated overtime.

Hopefully, we repeat only the traditions we love and ditch the ones that don’t work for our families. And we can always create new ones. Wondering how?

Consider these aspects of making and keeping Fall traditions.


1. Get outside.

If you live in a locale where harsher weather is just a few months away, now is a great time to get out of doors. As I browsed through past photos recently, I noticed how in our Kansas City days, we swam in September and got the first snow in November. Fall can fly by if you don’t take advantage of the beautiful weather.

  • Take long hikes in the mountains, woods, or fields.
  • Visit a local farm. Pick apples, roam the pumpkin patch, ride a hay wagon.
  • Find a corn or hay maze. No matter where we’ve lived, there has always been a corn or hay maze to wander through. Find one and meander through it with your children.

2. Get comfy.

Fair weather days lend themselves to cooler nights and chilly mornings. Create cozy corners in your home to cuddle up with little ones or hang out with older children.

  • Establish a regular family night. Perhaps homemade pizza, popcorn, and games once a week can be a regular gig.
  • Gather a stash of firewood and make the hearth a little more homey. Lay in firestarters, matches, and the makings of s’mores. If you don’t have a fireplace, consider a fire pit or chiminea out back.
  • Corral all the lap blankets and throws in one central location. Add a stack of good reads and make a comfy reading nook for the family to gather together.
  • Find some read alouds to enjoy together as a family.

3. Find some good noshes.

Fall features some of the best comfort foods around: macaroni and cheese, soups, stews, chilis, hot cocoa, and flavored coffees. There’s no end to the good eats to be had. And when you enjoy them with friends and family, so much the better.

  • Dust off the cappuccino maker and become your own barrista. Make the nightly cups of joe and cocoa a family ritual. Throw in some cookies, too.
  • Explore the beautiful world of pie. Apple and pumpkin are just perfect for the season. And Nanna’s Apple Pie and Gramma Marilyn’s Streusel-Topped Pumpkin Pie are some of the best traditions around. (If I do say so myself.)
  • Invest in a good soup cookbook and make it a family affair to work your way through the book. Older kids may even want to take turns or offer input, so make sure to include them. Add special touches like cornbread or popovers.

4. Capture the memories.

Whatever you do and wherever you go, take pictures! Not only do the fall colors look beautiful on film, but they are as fleeting as this time with our children. My boy was just a toddler. And now he’s a teenager. How did this happen?

  • Ignore the protests of your children and snap a lot of photos. Better yet, bundle them off to the pumpkin patch or the apple orchard and make it a regular old photo shoot.
  • For the techno-kids in your midst, work together to make a computerized slide show of the year’s photos. Not only is this a great memory-making, memory-reliving experience, but doing this every year will help you capture the moment for a little longer. (Plus, the slide show burnt on DVD will make a great Christmas gift for the grandparents!)
  • Start a family journal, inviting everyone to add their memories of a special event or fun day together as a family. Record prayer requests as well as how you see God working in your lives.
  • If you haven’t already, have your kids fill out Who Am I? worksheets and mark with the date so that you have a snapshot of their interests and dislikes in this season of their lives.

What fall traditions do you keep in your family?

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  1. We pretty much do just the normal stuff during the fall, playing with leave and such. The bonfires certainly are fun. We have gone apple picking the last few years and the kids just asked about that so that’s becoming a tradition I think. We’ll have to pick a new orchard this year as the one we go to was hit by hail and they don’t have apples for picking. Great post!

  2. We are surrounded by great places to visit in fall: Canyons, farms, orchards. But it’s too easy to put it all in that “someday” file. Thanks for the reminder to get out there before the snowflakes fly!

  3. We love our pies (I made one yesterday), stews, nature walks. pumpkins, hot todys, etc:-)

  4. Apple picking! We found a great farm once when we got lost, and we’ve gone back at least once (if not twice) a year since. Then it’s pie time! I make a bunch of apple pies, and usually the first one is eaten in less than 24 hours. I also get out my yummy teas. And then it’s family snuggle time – me, husband, cat, blankets, all piled in our papasan, for fun.

  5. I grew up in Ohio and went to college in Michigan. Both states have beautiful autumn weather and built-in traditions. Now I live in Florida with my husband and baby, and it’s hard to get used to 85-degree weather lingering throughout September and into October or even later. (My husband wore shorts on Christmas Eve last year.)

    So for us, “fall” comes around Thanksgiving. That’s when I decorate, add an autumnal centerpiece to our table, put pumpkins on the front porch, etc.

  6. Each fall we have a Pilgrim dinner. We wear long napkins that hang down to our knees to grab hot food. Only the eldest male sits in a chair, the rest of us stand. The children aren’t allowed to speak until spoken to first. We share a common cup to drink. The kids just love it and look forward to it every year!

  7. A fall tradition for us is going to the local church and picking out pumpkins! We put them everywhere – our front porch, the dining room table, the mantle. It’s fall when our house is decorated with pumpkins.

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